How To Seduce Your Boyfriend Or Husband: 30 Seduction Tips

There's nothing hotter than knowing exactly how to seduce your husband or boyfriend, except maybe getting to reap the rewards that come from putting your top-notch seduction skills to good use.

Things get a bit stale for couples in long term relationships after a while. Sexless marriages are unfortunately common, but being in one doesn't have to be your fate. If you want to get your man's attention — and keep it — following these seduction tips can spice up your sex life while strengthening your relationship, too.

Give these tips on how to seduce a man a chance and we can pretty much guarantee that your partner will be putty in your hands in no time.

30 Hot Seduction Tips And Ways To Seduce Your Boyfriend Or Husband

1. Tease him.

Nothing says hot like teasing your partner with what he can and can't have. Men love it when you wear

2. Talk dirty to him.

When you're snuggled up to watch TV and he's least expecting it, seduce your partner by leaning in and tell him exactly what you want to do to him right now. Don't forget to wear his favorite perfume for added impact.

3. Send him dirty texts.

If you can't talk dirty, then text him the details of what he can expect later.

4. Be direct about what you want.

When you're in bed, tell him what you want, and don't beat around the bush about it. It makes a man feel good when he knows how to please you.

5. Bring home a bag of tricks (yes, I mean sex toys).

Hit up a sex toy store, and drop the bag of goodies in his lap.

6. Answer the door partially naked.

While naked might be seductive, too, leaving more to the imagination is always better.

7. Suggest something new in the bedroom.

Tell him about that new sex position you were reading about or something you've always wanted to try but haven’t.

8. Play a sexy game like "Never Have I Ever."

Playing this game will get to the bottom of things you really need to bring into your sex life.

9. Show him what you like.

Take his hand and show him exactly how and where you want to be touched, giving him a full tour of your favorite erogenous zones.

10. Let your hair down.

If you have long hair, take it down in front of him. He'll know you mean business.

11. Giveth, then taketh away.

Start to give him what he wants, then take it away, leaving him wanting more.

12. Masturbate in front of him.

Men are really turned on when a woman touches herself. There's no time like TV-time to slip your hand in your panties because you're really that turned on.

13. Taunt him.

Taunting is way different than teasing, as it means keeping space between you and your partner — a space he'll want to close fast.

14. Take him lingerie shopping.

As you model the sexy lingerie you think you might want to buy, he'll be losing his mind because he can't have you then and there.

15. Text him a tantalizing photo of you.

We're not necessarily talking about shots of your nethermost region, but some sexy selfies with a hint of nipple showing just slightly through your shirt or a picture showing a glimpse of thigh beneath your skirt can go a long way toward revving him up.

16. Surprise him.

Before you part ways in the morning, tell him he’s in for one hell of a surprise that night.

17. Remove your bra in his presence.

Not really sure why this is so seductive — maybe it's the thought of them being just a bit closer to our breasts sans our bra — but if you remove your bra in front of him, then go back to what you're doing, he'll start thinking it's time for a romp.

18. Show him what he's missing.

Parade back and forth in front of him, as you're getting dressed to leave. If you pretend you have no idea what you're doing, even better.

19. Go panty-less.

Head out on the town commando — and make sure he knows.

20. Hand him your panties mid-dinner.

This probably sounds like a scene you've seen in so many films, but it works! If you slip your panties into his hand while he's about to take another bite of food, he'll be beside himself.

21. Beg him.

This really doesn't need much of an explanation. Giving him a sense of erotic control is sure to get his blood pumping.

22. Eat a popsicle in front of him.

What's a popsicle shaped like? Yeah, you get it. And use lots of tongue while you're at it.

23. Get a little rough with him.

Take the upper hand and attack him with bites and kisses and pulling his clothes off of him.

24. Stand in front of him naked, but don't let him touch you.

For as long as you can, stand in front of him naked, or barely clothed, and make him squirm with desire.

25. Make eye contact with him.

It's amazing how much you can convey without any words at all.

26. Bite your lower lip.

The mouth is a singularly sexy feature. Men love when you use it to your advantage by giving it a little bite to draw attention to it.

27. Give him a gift that will remind him of you all day long.

Give him something that he can take to work with the strict instruction to think of [insert something dirty here] every time he uses it.

28. Wear red.

The color red turns on the primal instinct in men. Need we say more?

29. Walk away.

As they say, he may hate to see you go, but he loves you watch you walk away.

30. Tie him up when he least expects it.

You knew there was a reason for the scarf or belt you wore today. Tell him it's his turn to lie back while you call the shots.

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Amanda Chatel is a writer who divides her time between NYC and Paris. She's a regular contributor to Bustle and Glamour, with bylines at Harper's Bazaar, The Atlantic, Forbes, Livingly, Mic, The Bolde, Huffington Post, and others. Follow her on Twitter or Facebook for more.

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