Thanks, @oftentimes, for the above post with Noella's ex, James.

Two sides to every story indeed.

Noella needing to make sure that the home they'd be buying would be within filming range of RHOC says a lot.

She's making herself out to be such a victim.  Interesting that he says the part about how their marriage became "sex, drugs, and rock & roll", which makes me think that the sex dungeon was her idea all along, just so she could show it off.

Something about her has rubbed me the wrong way since she first came on.  I do wonder, is he paying for their son?