To spit or to swallow.

These are just a few thoughts we all have when we're considering performing a blowjob on a guy, new and sometimes otherwise (if we're not 100 percent sexually comfortable yet). 

Giving blowjobs can be intimidating, if you let them. But if you're having fun with it, and by fun, I don't mean pretending to treat his penis like a ballpark hot dog (that, then, intimidates him) — then all will be good.

There can be a lot of pressure to give a blowjob the "right" way — and get results. And it's not so much from the guy as it is society as a whole.

If you've ever seriously watched a video on how to give a blowjob you're probably feeling that pressure on some small level. Of course, you may have just been watching videos that were just one step away from being porn.

1. Grapefruit Technique By Auntie Angel

This classic head technique video was turning heads when it first came out what seems like forever ago.  Auntie Angel taught us not only how to give better head but how to do so with a grapefruit video.

Admittedly, I find it weird that she refers to herself as auntie since I don't think any of my aunts — not event the one's I'm close in age with, would be demonstrating to me how to give a proper blowjob to my boyfriend or anyone else. 

If you can get past that you'll most certainly be tempted to go try a grapefruit or two, in the name of good oral sex. 

2. The "Head Doctor"

During a radio interview to promote herself and her business, the head doctor goes to work on a peeled cucumber.

She gets so into the fellatio that she requests a napkin to catch her saliva that's all over the place, and while this might disgust you to watch as her spit falls on the table you work and eat on, she's most men's dream come true.

She is the truth.

3. As Told By Porn Stars 

While this blowjob tutorial video may be a bit underwhelming in comparison to the other two, it's hilarious to watch as real life porn stars buddy up with regular women and give the fellatio tips with popsicles.

And of course, it offers you some pro tips, especially if you're advanced enough to deep throat two penises or the mass of two penises.Related Stories From YourTango: