What used to be thought of as kinky sex is practically considered vanilla sex these days. It's not that people's sexual tastes are all so outrageous, it's that people are much more willing to experiment and try new things. It's not just about the missionary position, it's about the missionary position dressed as a clown... sitting on a cake.

Sex is no longer only about the act of procreating — it's about fun, fulfillment, and satisfaction. Most people are having sex before marriage and most people have more than one partner in their lives. Now if someone chooses to get married, they can see if they're sexually compatible with their future spouse.

How can someone know what they like without trying it first? 

There are so many sexual fetishes and kinks that it's impossible to keep up with them. Many times, these fetishes — such as a penchant for latex or a thing for feet — develop at an early age. As long as kinky sex or fetish play is done between two consenting adults and no one gets hurt (in the wrong way), this kind sex can add color and flavor to one's sex life.

When we're in long-term relationships, sex can get boring or predictable. But adding in some toys, fantasy play or any other kind of kinky/fetish sex can rejuvenate sex. Creativity, imagination, and open-mindedness are crucial to a satisfying and enjoyable sex life. When experimenting, trust is critical, and having safe words and parameters set up beforehand are imperative.

Kinky sex can feel dangerous and exciting, but it shouldn't actually be hazardous to anyone's health. Safety is just as important as openness. Some people may be shy about sharing their deepest and more taboo desires, so sometimes we need a helping hand in finding out what their secret sexual appetites are.

Astrology can help, because just like knowing what makes a zodiac sign angry or irritates them, the stars can give you an idea of what kind of kinky flavor appeals to him, based on his zodiac sign.