If you were to ask single Christian men and women about their singleness they will mostly respond by saying; “I am waiting on God for my Soul Mate or marriage.” You will also discover that these same individuals have been single for 5, 10, 20 years or more. Their explanation for their singleness is either that God is still working on them or God will send them their spouse in due time.

What these individuals fail to realize is that first, God will always be working on them and there is a part of their character that will only be transformed through marriage. Second, they fail to realize that they are not waiting on God but God is waiting on them. Unless these individuals get the proper knowledge and apply that knowledge they will be single for the next 5, 10, 20 years or more. I know a young lady right now that desires to be married but have been waiting on God and her waiting period has already exceeded 25 years. Individuals are thinking that the power of attracting their Soul Mate is totally in God’s hand but this is a fallacy, this power is in the hands of both God and the individual. Yet, God will not allow or permit certain things to happen or manifest until we allow or permit certain things to happen or manifest. Also, God will not forbid or stop certain things from continuing until we forbid or stop certain things from continuing in our life. The scriptures says, “Whatsoever thou shalt bind (or forbid) on earth shall be bound (or forbid) in heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt loose (or allow) on earth shall be loosed (allowed) in heaven.” Matthew 16:19b, 18:18

The allowing or forbidding of a thing starts on earth not in heaven. This is why an individual can continue in singleness for 10, 20 years or more, it’s because they will not forbid or bind that spirit of continuation from continuing in their life, therefore God will not forbid or bind it. But the moments that they will become partners with God and allows or loose the spirit of attraction to attract their Soul Mate God will begin to allow or loose that person to manifest in their life. When this happen the person faith moves from a passive faith to an active faith and then they will have whatsoever they say. Mark 11:23 However, if they continue doing the same old thing they will continue to get the same results, you cannot expect different results following the same pattern. If you want something that you’ve never had then you must do something that you’ve never done.

7 Things you must do immediately when “you desire to find your Soul Mate.”

1. Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness.
2. Start accepting yourself and become whole as a person.
3. Make yourself a Soul Mate Chart so that you can know what you want in a Soul Mate.
4. Change your way of thinking from negative to positive about relationships, dating and your own situation.
5. Become active in your faith.
6. Change the words you speak about relationships, dating and your own situation.
7. Praise God daily for your Soul Mate.